I'm Autistic and ADHD (AuDHD) and when I am in a safe space, I have a tendency of nesting!
https://emergentdivergence.com/2023/07/01/audhd-and-me-my-nesting-habits/
@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy #autism #autistic #adhd #adhder #audhd #audhder #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #neurodivergence #mentalhealth #sensorysafespace #safespace
@theautisticcoach Interestingly, in my family it wasn't I that seemed to inhale my food.
It was my dad.
He'd eat in two seconds and then impatiently wait for the rest of the family to be done. My sisters and mom picked up on it, I ended up going slower, just kind of on ... principle, I guess?
(this is the same dad who was very extroverted and loved being around people, and who after dinner with friends took a nap on the sofa. From when he was in his 30s, at least. I am pretty much assuming he was autistic)
Do my #ActuallyAutistic comrades pick their nails until they get infected or bleed?
If so, youβre not alone.
HEY #PAYPAL USERS! WATCH OUT!
On the web interface PayPal just introduced a new dark pattern #enshittification to the transfer-balance-to-bank-account process to trick the user into electing the premium and quite expensive "immediate transfer" option, instead of choosing the free 1-3 day option.
When you initiate a transfer, this is now what shows up:
If any of you ever decide you want to see, in a vivid and exaggerated way, what it looks like when people scramble to meet your needs - go out in public on crutches. π€£
Sprinting to open doors for me, giving me all the space I could use, standing back to let me go by. Apologizing profusely if they interfere with my progress in any way. I found it very funny, in a nice kind of way.
We were supposed to get new carpet installed yesterday - while I was at work and hubs (who isn't bothered by this kind of thing) was here. I pay for things, I don't supervise their installation. Carpet guys had an install at the beach yesterday, and their truck got stuck in the sand. Rescheduled for today. Now I'm in the middle of hammering, ripping, dogs barking, and strangers everywhere, and I'm not having a good time.
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@actuallyautistic
If being #ActuallyAutistic is like having a different OS from the mainstream, than #AutisticMasking is like having to run everything on WINE
Hello sunny memories of a day in #Williamsburg #Virginia
Find prints here: https://mark-tisdale.pixels.com/featured/woodland-ride-colonial-williamsburg-mark-e-tisdale.html
My wife has a soft spot for Tiki bars. It's been a while since we moved up to the Portland Oregon area, and I'm going to take her to this bar/restaurant for dinner, the second oldest one in America, as a surprise. It's 75 years old. She's not on Mastodon but...don't tell her. The sign is real Americana kitsch.
SCOTUS, bigoted anti-LGBTQ ruling
"The court ruled 6-3 for designer Lorie Smith despite a Colorado law that bars discrimination based on sexual orientation, race, gender and other characteristics. Smith had argued that the law violates her free speech rights."
Honestly, fuck the Supreme Court. She had no standing, had no injury and the letter she said prompted her lawsuit was fake. Her "web design company" was only hypothetical, yet they ruled for her???
Now they've destroyed anti-discrimination state laws if artists for hire are involved. FOR HIRE, AS IN RUNNING A BUSINESS OPEN TO THE PUBLIC. FFS. I wonder how the definition of "artist" will now get stretched. Does "writers" include journalists working for a news site or internal newsletter?
great! Now we have to rep0licate that 300 million times in America alone, as if it were our only job.
As if it were our only job.
Past efforts are admirable, the job to do is within our capacity, but its ALL HANDS ON DECK
They have been saying, our governments that climate collapse is decades away, a hundred years, that we can "accommodate" climate changes.
Climate collapse is HERE NOW.
WE must Build All the Renewables Needed to make carbon fuels unneeded and redundant. Build enough solar and wind tio REPLACE ALL oil and gas, everywhere, every land, right now.
We must demand it now, force it if they do not begin.
@knitting day 5 of #knitting my #FayeSummerTop: I can actually put it on now, and it fits exactly as I had planned! Iβm so happy I could cry.
I joined the front and back in the round, and the ease is bang on after I spent so much time doing knitting math to make sure it would fit correctly using different needles and yarn weight than the pattern recommended. It was my first time deviating like that, but I trusted my gauge swatch, math, and most importantly my capabilities/myself, and it totally paid off! 
So... me. Work in aerospace, more space, not as much aero. Can fix my own car, choose not to. Can fix the random appliance of your choice. Hardcore introvert in person, which is why I love online. Lifelong science fiction fan. Read constantly. Scalzi is my favorite author, because he mixes exactly the right amount of snark into his writing. Together with a guy 30+ years, married since it was legal. Own a home in CA and don't plan to leave unless I immigrate to another country.