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@rabia_elizabeth @actuallyautistic thank you for linking that, it was a most interesting read!

it also jives with a thought i’ve been nurturing for a while now. i suspected that i am locating β€˜identity’ at a different epistemological layer than neurotypicals: where it is common to see the self as one thing in a world of things, i always erred on the side of feeling the self as the point opposite the world of things, as the stage on which the phenomena describing the world happen. and the self-as-a-part-of-the-world only happens in the phenomena on that stage. they enter stage right, so to say, and speak of things, some of which affect me. and i do like some of those described things more than others (and am super duper into some of them!), but at the end of the day, my self is more the stage on which that happens rather than the play performed on it.

hence i always struggled a bit with gender as well – not in terms of understanding it as a varied spectrum, or which parts of that spectrum i find more likeable, but in terms of not getting the importance of putting my β€˜me’ on a spot on that spectrum where it reads as β€˜is like this’ and β€˜is not like that’ – when what i feel to be my true self exists only as itself, and all those axes of differentiation can only happen within the play, between characters, but not on the stage. i have only me. and even saying β€˜ah, i must be agender’ places me too much inside the play to describe my true, inner me-ness.

Hey, Virginia! Today is the last day to register to vote or update your registration for the primary elections in June.

All 100 House of Delegates and 40 Virginia State Senate seats are up election in addition to many local-level races. Voters will pick who’ll be on the general election ballots through Virginia’s primary elections. Getting the best candidate is really important.

Every election matters and this one is no exception. #Virginia #RegisterToVote
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@ScottSoCal @rabia_elizabeth @actuallyautistic

I had what I consider an enviable run. As a young engineer introducing computer techniques to a long- established industry with engineers 10 to 35 years my senior, I could pretty much function self-directed. They recognized that, gave me projects way above my pay grade. Then I had a series of jobs in tech companies, some salaried, some contract, but all focused on getting something done for a client. Goal sheets, performance reviews? Nah!

Republicans in Wisconsin are acknowledging that the state has now shifted leftward, and abortion has a lot to do with that. Many Wisconsinites now understand that Republicans don't have their best interests in mind. #RepublicanLies politico.com/news/magazine/202

I'm not good at nature photography, but here's two little butterflies bonking on my windowsill

The family Coleman used to design the 6-Person Family Tent.

The thing about bowing to pressure from hateful groups is that it’s not like they ever say β€œcool, we’re satisfied, we’ll back down now.”

They become emboldened, feel justified, and just find new and broader ways to amplify the hate.

I’m looking at you, Target.

I’m autistic. Not an alien. Not a baby.

I’m a human who is worth as much as you because, I am a human.

My value isn’t dependent on what I produce or even what I do.

My value exists because I live and breathe.

And that’s the case for every other #ActuallyAutistic human too.

@actuallyautistic @actuallyautistics

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Speaking of autistic traits - does anyone else shred the upholstery if you're in a car that squeaks or rattles? I can't buy a car if it has anything like that, and if one develops I'll track it down and refasten it, lubricate it, or replace it.
Patterns of noise I can handle, but random noise just tap dances on my last nerve.

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The hyperfocus thing can be a real benefit. I restored a 1978 Mercedes 450SL - a car I knew nothing about, except it was cute, and I wanted it. By the time I was done I was the forum subject matter expert for the Bosch D-Jetronic mechanical fuel injection system, the suspension, and the vacuum system (door locks, HVAC, a bunch of stuff).

@doggle @actuallyautistic
Mine started when I was about 23. Like you I just get the light show, which is over normally quite quickly. Never have worked out what triggers them, beyond sometimes a bright flash of light.

It's okay to resist capitalism on an iPhone. The feudal lord who owned the pitchforks the peasants killed him with probably observed the irony too.

Remember Christian Cooper? Bird watching while black in Central Park had 911 called on him because his blackness threatening someone. Must have been those dangerous binoculars!

Christian will be the host for National Geographic's new show "Extraordinary Birder", a six-episode series to premiere June 17, on Nat Geo.

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