Have I told you all about my stepfather dying? I canβt remember.
Anyway, itβs still happening. He was sent home from the hospital yesterday to die at home. My Mom has been lying to him (& herself), telling him heβs βgetting betterβ, and thatβs why theyβre sending him home. Iβm glad for him that heβll be home with his dog, and happy for his dog that theyβll be together. But nobodyβs prepared, nobody has any kind of handle on whatβs happening or how to deal.
I feel confused. As a kid/teenager, I always thought this time would feel victorious, but itβs not like that at all. I donβt feel βsadβ, exactly; more like disappointed and ashamed that all of our lives have sunk to this level, that we all outlived our βsuccessfulβ years and now weβre all at varying levels of failure. Nothing is going to get better for any of us. My sister and I are going to have to add supporting and caring for our Mom to our responsibilities. I canβt even imagine how thatβs going to work.
I feel like sheβs cheated herself and my stepfather out of consciously facing end-of-life, by assuring him heβs βgetting betterβ. Itβs all so weird.
This post is not looking for sympathy, I just wanted to update you on the situation. Thank you, #FediverseFamily.
Again, to remind everyone to whom this might apply, if you're mad about the #trumpindictment because you invested most of your personality in demonstrable fascist horseshit and justifying a massive criminal conspiracy to end constitutional democracy in the United States, let me offer these solemn words of counsel: Fuck you.
Trump tried to overthrow an elected government in 2021, and may actually face justice for it. He's made it clear in his 2024 campaign that he will rule as a dictator if elected.
If Big Journalism won't finally take a stand -- in its news coverage, not just in its commentary -- to protect democracy (and by extension journalism), then it'll be directly complicit.
You can't be a mere observer about some things. This is one of them.
Maybe this is petty of me but I don't care
I think it's pretty awesome that the newest #TrumpIndictment is 45 pages. π
BREAKING NEWS: Former President Donald Trump has been indicted on FOUR CRIMINAL CHARGES by a federal grand jury for his role in trying to overturn the 2020 presidential election.
A: Conspiracy to Defraud the United States
B: Conspiracy to Obstruct an Official Proceeding
C: Obstruction of and Attempt to Obstruct an Official Proceeding
D: Conspiracy Against Rights
@voron This is so disgusting!
"The group stormed into the Watertown area and began loudly chanting while making
Nazi salutes.
They could be heard repeatedly belting out "There will be blood, blood, blood," as well as "pedophiles get the rope" and "no pedos in our streets"
https://www.express.co.uk/news/us/1796647/wisconsin-neo-nazis-blood-tribe-pride-lgbtq-protest/amp
Anti-trans Nazi hate - by homocons
If you think the anti-drag laws don't target trans lives, look at the signs used against Watertown, WI Pride.
"No child is born in the wrong body" Signs brought by people standing shoulder-to-shoulder with Swastika-flag-waving Nazis.
Guess what? If you're on the same side as the Nazis, you're a Nazi. Being gay with it just makes you a gay Nazi. If you agree with this YOU ARE NOT IN MY TRIBE.
Remember that the women across the border have already thought about you needing a place to stay if you need to flee for reproductive health care. We have your back. #prochoice #abortionishealthcare
@homelessjun @AutisticAdam @actuallyautistic oh absolutely i could spend days on google maps satellite view if my laptop had the ram to handle it ha
I'm hosting TWELVE free discussion circles for #ActuallyAutistic adults over the next month and I'd love for you to come be part of our community.
https://www.theautisticcoach.com/autism-discussion-affirmation-circles
You'll often hear Black folk refer to this as "One way solidarity."
The ironic thing, is that is more marginalized groups took the issues of Black voters more seriously, we would already have made progress on these other issues. π€·πΏββοΈ
The path to solidarity is not in telling Black voters to suck it up but in prioritizing the issues that are most important to them. Because like I've said many times, racism is just fascism practiced on Black people first.
Sea wolves are a unique breed of #wolf found in the Great Bear Rainforest along the Pacific Coast of #Canada. Swimming between islands like fish, they are genetically distinct from their inland cousins, or from wolves in any other part of the world. (ph and text Ian McAllister)
#Photography #Photographie #Fotografie #Nature #MastoArt #Wildlife #NaturePhotography #WildlifePhotography #SilentSunday
So... me. Work in aerospace, more space, not as much aero. Can fix my own car, choose not to. Can fix the random appliance of your choice. Hardcore introvert in person, which is why I love online. Lifelong science fiction fan. Read constantly. Scalzi is my favorite author, because he mixes exactly the right amount of snark into his writing. Together with a guy 30+ years, married since it was legal. Own a home in CA and don't plan to leave unless I immigrate to another country.