Autism can be messed up.
Medical drama for the last month, and the ER doctor filed a report with the DMV that got my license suspended, pending medical review. Many, many doctor appointments later, with multiple specialists, and today I got the letter that my license is now reinstated.
For a month I've been stressing about not being able to drive or go into the office. Now I'm stressing about going back into the office.
@StillIRise1963 I guess we need to start developing a remedial college curriculum something like "reality for Floridians"
@AutisticAdam @actuallyautistic every time I talk to the doc or some other specialist, they write down about me : explains a lot and gets bogged down in details..I just really want them to understand me
It's a metaphor, people. It's not like Ron DeSantis is an actual twisted, hollowed-out sociopath, a former Gitmo torturer who kidnaps migrant children, claims slavery was vocational school for blacks, and pushes laws that promote #LGBTQ+ teen suicide. Oh wait.
Re: deadnaming
I explained to my mother that deadnaming and misgendering is like farting. If you do it by accident, and apologize, people will forgive you.
If you keep doing it, people will suggest you get that taken care of, maybe recommend you seek treatment, and ultimately avoid you.
If you bend over, stick your ass in their face, and let it rip though, then you shouldnβt be surprised people think youβre a clueless, hostile asshole.
(This is from an old post, but I wanted to keep it.)
Have I told you all about my stepfather dying? I canβt remember.
Anyway, itβs still happening. He was sent home from the hospital yesterday to die at home. My Mom has been lying to him (& herself), telling him heβs βgetting betterβ, and thatβs why theyβre sending him home. Iβm glad for him that heβll be home with his dog, and happy for his dog that theyβll be together. But nobodyβs prepared, nobody has any kind of handle on whatβs happening or how to deal.
I feel confused. As a kid/teenager, I always thought this time would feel victorious, but itβs not like that at all. I donβt feel βsadβ, exactly; more like disappointed and ashamed that all of our lives have sunk to this level, that we all outlived our βsuccessfulβ years and now weβre all at varying levels of failure. Nothing is going to get better for any of us. My sister and I are going to have to add supporting and caring for our Mom to our responsibilities. I canβt even imagine how thatβs going to work.
I feel like sheβs cheated herself and my stepfather out of consciously facing end-of-life, by assuring him heβs βgetting betterβ. Itβs all so weird.
This post is not looking for sympathy, I just wanted to update you on the situation. Thank you, #FediverseFamily.
Again, to remind everyone to whom this might apply, if you're mad about the #trumpindictment because you invested most of your personality in demonstrable fascist horseshit and justifying a massive criminal conspiracy to end constitutional democracy in the United States, let me offer these solemn words of counsel: Fuck you.
Trump tried to overthrow an elected government in 2021, and may actually face justice for it. He's made it clear in his 2024 campaign that he will rule as a dictator if elected.
If Big Journalism won't finally take a stand -- in its news coverage, not just in its commentary -- to protect democracy (and by extension journalism), then it'll be directly complicit.
You can't be a mere observer about some things. This is one of them.
Maybe this is petty of me but I don't care
I think it's pretty awesome that the newest #TrumpIndictment is 45 pages. π
BREAKING NEWS: Former President Donald Trump has been indicted on FOUR CRIMINAL CHARGES by a federal grand jury for his role in trying to overturn the 2020 presidential election.
A: Conspiracy to Defraud the United States
B: Conspiracy to Obstruct an Official Proceeding
C: Obstruction of and Attempt to Obstruct an Official Proceeding
D: Conspiracy Against Rights
So... me. Work in aerospace, more space, not as much aero. Can fix my own car, choose not to. Can fix the random appliance of your choice. Hardcore introvert in person, which is why I love online. Lifelong science fiction fan. Read constantly. Scalzi is my favorite author, because he mixes exactly the right amount of snark into his writing. Together with a guy 30+ years, married since it was legal. Own a home in CA and don't plan to leave unless I immigrate to another country.