Our landlord's realtor had to enter our apartment to make pictures for an online listing to find new renters.
When we opened the door he was surprised by our masks, like everyone, and nervously asked us if we were sick. We explained no, but underlying condition, blabla, just deal with it. I really have no energy to talk to anyone about my mask anymore.
Then he asked if he should wear a mask as well! I immediately seized the opportunity and said yes! Here you go! Handed him a fresh FFP2 in plastic wrap!
He put it on without complaining and then entered our apartment and did his work. My partner and I were so surprised, exchanging looks. This is a new experience for us. Someone willing to mask for us? No crybaby acts?!
When he was done my partner walked him outside and offered to throw away his mask inside and the realtor said no thanks, he'd rather keep it.
Look, this isn't a big win but it's the biggest mask-win I've ever experienced so I'm taking it.
Heβs definitely not βstable,β and he sure as hell isnβt a βgenius.β Heβs an volatile idiot.
#CriminalTrump #StableGenius #FuckingMoron #DonaldTrump
@Zumbador @TheGreatLlama @actuallyautistic
The concern trolls run more regular than some time Swiss time pieces.
I tried to alleviate peopleβs issues w my pinned post. The old critique was always that Iβm ββit part of the community and no one knows youβ.
Now itβs my qualifications, which is it course ridiculous because the only qualification one needs to speak with other autistic people is BE AUTISTIC.
Unlike what various trolls claim, Iβm actually qualified by the standards of NTs (which is what they really want to know) and thatβs posted clearly on my site. For the trolls reading this, I live and work in the European Union, where people cannot just do whatever they want without proper bureaucratic oversight in 99% of fields, including autism education. I am a fully registered and regulated autism educator in the French Republic. That being said, the trolls always claim to have reviewed my site, but always conveniently leave out that part which is clearly stated, along with that I am NOT a medical or psychological clinician, as required by Law.
First it was control that I wasnβt autistic, then it was that I didnβt share my stories, now itβs my qualifications. Posting them here wouldnβt change anything as nothing has ever changed this group of people.
The reality is that all of these people fall into one or all of the following:
1. They donβt support autistic self advocacy, the Neurodiversity Paradigm, or the Neurodiversity Movement.
2. They donβt think autistic people should work with the autistic community either for free or for pay. The latter is a direct connection to the idea that autistic peopleβs labor is worthless.
3. They are antisemitic and it bothers them to see a loud Jewish autistic person with a platform. This has happened a number of times with the terms βevilβ, βShylockβ, βshiftyβ, βverminβ, βextracting soulsβ being used a number of times. All antisemitic tropes.
4. Theyβre bullies.
@Zumbador @TheGreatLlama @actuallyautistic
Iβm the only person on this platform in the autistic community who is attacked and insulted with such regularity. Itβs caused me much dysregulation and harm. This isnβt really about qualifications, all autistic people are qualified. No one else is asked.
Itβs about autistics who internalize NT norms that everyone is lying. They donβt know much about autism or the autistic brain, which is no fault of their own. They donβt like what I have to say. Itβs uncomfortable. I know. So they try to use every other excuse in the book to malign me and literally harm me.
The ban on #trans women in #chess is hitting me particularly hard.
I'm a chess enthusiast (in keeping with my careful curated rep as an expert strategist).
It's just this wtf moment that pulls the wind right out of my sails.
I know really well that lots of folks don't like us. But ... how are we ever gonna overcome a level of pure unhinged bigotry that says we can't be trusted play chess?
Obviously ALL women should be insulted by this move.
1. It gladdens my heart that a couple of shitheads who sought to avoid the wrong kind of press actually put their names into national headlines by trying to silence this paper
2. Iβm quite ignorant of the process required to obtain warrants, but it seems the prosecutor not being informed of this one demonstrates how very, very shady the whole thing was.
@philip_cardella @mrcompletely This is why they're book banning and trying to take over school boards.
And then there's this guy, making the implicit threat of violence against women explicit (Locke is a pastor in Mt. Juliet pop 39k)
Morning everyone, buenos dΓas a todos, bonjour a tous.
This is a #ThrowbackThursday #TBThursday #Tbt and a #thirsttrapThursday also... From some summers ago at the #nudistbeach down my house. Nowadays you can still go #naked there but it has been invaded by dressed people so it is a bummer.
The previous homeowners had plastic grass in this planter, and I always thought about replacing it with real plants. 10+ years later, I finally did it. Fittonia and sansevieria. The sansevieria are tiny propagated babies right now and Iβm looking forward to seeing them grow. #Houseplants
At five years old, I couldn't grasp the concept of a scapegoat; all I understood was that, because of Japanβs aggression that pulled the United States into the war, my family and I had to leave our home at gunpoint, taking with us only what we could carry. As I got older, I understood scapegoating for what it is: a channel for hate, blame, and bigotry.
My lifelong mission has been preventing this from happening again, yet my heart aches as the LGBTQ+ community faces it now. We've fought for our rights to live, love, and be ourselvesβa vibrant, misunderstood, and often mistreated rainbow of identities.
I have seen where scapegoating, if left unchallenged, leads. And it is a very dark place. This week, I chose to share my story with you in the hopes that we never repeat the heinous mistakes of the past. https://thinkbigpicture.substack.com/p/takei-scapegoating-lgbtq-japanese-internment
This is Arp 271, a pair of spiral galaxies locked in a gravitational dance. In a few billion years the #MilkyWay and the Andromeda galaxy might look like this!
This is the very last #photo ever taken with the VIMOS instrument at ESO's Very Large #Telescope in #Chile, back in 2018. After I finished the decommissioning procedures that night, I decided to take one last image as a farewell, and this was the result.
As a violinist, I play many gigs. Recently I was asked by a funeral director to play at a graveside service for a homeless man. He had no family or friends, so the service was to be at a pauper's cemetery in the Dorset back country.
As I was not familiar with the country lanes, I got lost and, being a typical man, I didn't stop for directions.
I finally arrived an hour late and saw the funeral guys had evidently gone and the hearse was nowhere in sight. There were only the diggers and crew left and they were eating lunch.
I felt bad and apologised to the men for being late. I went to the side of the grave and looked down and the vault lid was already in place. I didn't know what else to do, so I started to play.
The workers put down their lunches and began to gather around. I played out my heart and soul for this man with no family and friends.
I played like I've never played before for this homeless man.
And as I played 'Amazing Grace,' the workers began to weep. They wept, I wept, we all wept together. When I finished I packed up my violin and started for my car. Though my head hung low, my heart was full.
As I opened the door to my car, I heard one of the workers say, "I never seen nothin' like that before and I've been putting in septic tanks for twenty years."
26 year old david filling an escalade with clothes, and driving from texas --> new york, to live with my best friend
So... me. Work in aerospace, more space, not as much aero. Can fix my own car, choose not to. Can fix the random appliance of your choice. Hardcore introvert in person, which is why I love online. Lifelong science fiction fan. Read constantly. Scalzi is my favorite author, because he mixes exactly the right amount of snark into his writing. Together with a guy 30+ years, married since it was legal. Own a home in CA and don't plan to leave unless I immigrate to another country.