Antikink rhetoric is ableist
Some people, due to being ND or disabled, cannot engage in vanilla sex.
Either it is too painful, uncomfortable or just boring.
For some with chronic pain, pain play is a way to gain control over the concept of the pain they experience.
Some autistic people gain no pleasure from vanilla sex due to sensory issues, but find pleasure in kink.
For some, vanilla sex isn’t something they’re physically capable of, or is very uncomfortable, but kink is pleasurable and comfortable to preform.
Some autistic people enjoy ‘unusual’ kinks, for some of us it is the only thing we sexually engage with.
Antikink sentiment directly harms disabled people and our sexual expression.
and when i see people say shit like “ADD is only a problem because capitalism” it makes me less likely to trust their other analyses because it makes me think their thought process is “blame as much as i can on capitalism for Leftist Cred even in cases where it makes no goddamn sense”
if i could snap my fingers and get rid of my depression and my ADD instantly, i absolutely 100% fucking would. without a doubt.
Phlebotomist. Cyberwitch. Artist. Fighter. Accidental breaker of computers.
Genderfluid enby. Pansexual/-romantic. Kitsune-kin (9-tailed)/Incubus-kin. Plural, with a bunch of headmates.
DAMNED PROUD ANTIFASCIST and an anarchocommunist.
Be warned: In theory, I post both lewd/NSFW and incredibly personal stuff.
(In practice, it's been a while, but who knows?)