@melissasage That was a typo. They meant to say nobody was dating [i]them[/i], because they were trying to curry favor with incels. Hence "Spinster".
@melissasage It's true. We're one of those trans couples you hear so much about these days.
A friend suggested today that it's time for a manifesto and I agree. Another friend in another conversation mentioned that "free software" and "open source" are not relevant terms for what we need. I also agree.
It's time for something new. A new, community-centered ecosystem.
I'm increasingly of the opinion that the way forward for us is to build a dual-purpose Commons: one where our communities can freely partake and share and collaborate and learn and build each other up, while those who seek to profit on their own terms put cold hard cash down.
I'm entirely in favor of building an altruistic Commons where people aren't counting pennies of value at each other to make sure everyone got their exact right share and instead focusing on everyone's needs.
But fuck if a CTO is gonna tell me that's what Rails is doing.
@troubleMoney I write the dusty tomes
@melissasage Laura competing with the Wachowskis for who can be the least subtle
My ex didn't give a shit about paying me money they owed me until 2 years later, when I had a high-paying apprenticeship. They didn't really care when I was homeless though. No wonder I stayed in that relationship, since they're the same as my garbage family.
Trans, guy of center, well over 18.
I'm in tech and it feels weird.