jk I'm all about that bread @danishcookies@computerfairi.es

@carlygayjepsen@anarchism.space
queer IS "lgbt+" I know what you're trying to do and I do not like it one bit

@carlygayjepsen@anarchism.space
I have to warn you that you are treading dangerously into the truscum/transmed territory

@carlygayjepsen@anarchism.space
The fact that you compare people in polyarmourous relationships to kinks or queerplatonic relationships to "having friends" is abhorrent. These people face oppression for their orientation and the commitment they chose. They do get to call themselves queer. No one but the fringe cases of exclusionists would oppose that.

@carlygayjepsen@anarchism.space
The biggest hole in your assumptions is that you think the cishet oppressors are some sort of rational entity that will be perfectly fine with people who diverge from them in certain ways, instead of being the irrational, paranoid fiends that they are, who are scared at the slightest hint of homosexuality or gender non conforming.

@carlygayjepsen@anarchism.space It is fair to say that anything different from cishetnormative society is innately queer. That's literally why the community was made in the first place. Oppression Olympics is a toxic ideology that has been used to no end to exclude various groups of people, including non-binary people, and it itself is a form of oppression and erasure. Materially saying, it's a shitty idea that does not help the queer community one bit.

@carlygayjepsen@anarchism.space This is literally the exclusionist logic was used against bi and ace people, that they are not "instituionally oppressed" because they can "choose not to". Different identities have different struggles and face different forms of stigmatization that you can not compare and must be respected regardless. Erasure is one of them. And you are trivializing their problems by reducing it to "somewhat frowned upon".

@theguardian
Do it now