@SunSaint send me ur full name and address and social security number and ill send it over
@SunSaint i live in the UK but I can mail you some scones if that helps?
identity discussion
so while many will describe themselves as having always been trans, and just taking a long time to realise it, I think I genuinely was cis for most of my childhood, but as I have grown into "adult"hood I have changed dramatically, and my gender has grown in complexity to the degree that I now resonate very strongly with my genderqueer identity and feel active discomfort with considering myself male
I don't know who I will be in future, but it doesn't invalidate who I am now
identity discussion
my self identity has shifted a lot over the last few years, and I feel like the common narrative would suggest that those changes were all just experiments in search of my "true self", but I don't really feel like that applies, not in my case at least, I genuinely feel like all my past identities were accurate for the time, even though they directly contradict who I am now.
it's not that my labels have been changing to figure out who I am, it's that I have been changing
@bryn well i never
sad, death of a pet, grief
@naga yeah, its pretty rough, I'm not very good at getting over this kind of shit which is going to make the next few days of coursework extra "fun". Literally happened on my little sisters birthday as well, sometimes things really do just align to make everything as shit as possible
Queer kinky poly 21yo confused nonbinary leftist depressed compsci apocalypse of a professional label-collector, uses they/them, allegedly banned from utilising the following articles: uWu, oWo
Boosting always okay unless specified, I need internet points or I starve
Also my brain is a bit of a stormy place and sadposting will appear at times