@00dani while their terminology is definitely worse, "trans fem/masc" can still cause problems - I have a friend who is a trans woman, but she's super butch and embraces "masculine" traits, and she hates being called "trans fem", because she isn't feminine.
@lizardsquid she sounds awesome
i don't think transfem necessarily implies Not Butch? but i get her point
idk what to suggest instead