do you ever want to vent/talk to someone about something, but you don't want to talk about it with anyone you actually know?
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the kind of thing which isn't necessarily secret, but where saying it to someone you know will automatically change the context in a strange and complex way
@lizardsquid I think I've experienced this, yeah. For me there's definitely also a category of "I never told you this just because it didn't come up or I wasn't comfortable at the time, but it wasn't a secret. However, if I bring it up now it'll feel weird" for me, too.