anxiety, too much of a good thing? 

Umm... I'm worried about something...
I JUST got here (to this instance) and there's one person that likes to hug and cuddle other people, and another on a different instance that's spent the last half hour blushing because I'm calling her cute.
I'm really not used to positive attention like this. I'm definitely getting drunk on it, and I'm really afraid of going overboard and screwing everything up.

anxiety, too much of a good thing? 

I'm seriously worried about the possibility of going from whatever good thing this is to being creepy in one Toot flat.
I really don't know how to deal with people in general. I really don't know when too far is too far.
And I overcorrect. HARD. Even a tiny mistake has me running for cover and going into a full-blown panic attack. I've been expelled from social groups for it.

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(unsolicited) advice 

@Terxbor it's ok - it's very different to a lot of other places.

The main thing is to always ask for consent and be ready for people to say no.

*offers warm hugs*

(unsolicited) advice 

@lizardsquid
*hugs because hugs are great and also because lizardsquid is good like squirrel*
Thanks.
(Apparently I failed to send my earlier toot from soon after you sent... Sorry.)

@lizardsquid
*smile* Affectionate hugs from three different people today. That may be a record.

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