@picklish We will min-max our hand-holding.
Today is a good day to practice right speech.
A hopeful message for #TDoV:
The political backlash against trans people you see in some places today is a direct consequence of the fact that the patriarchy has lost control of the flow of information and some sizable percentage of the many millions of trans people are freely showing other people that you can transition and in doing so, find happiness and even success.
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"Parents' Rights" and why it's bullshit
I've seen a lot of crap being put about on the idea of parents' rights. I want to reject this idea outright.
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS PARENTS' RIGHTS.
Parents do not have "rights" over their children. The children have rights; the parents have responsibilities to see that those rights are upheld.
In order for the parents to have rights, then necessarily the child does not have them. The only situation in which we have allowed one human to usurp another's rights was slavery; and I would argue children are not property.
If they're not property, then they're people, and if they're people, then they have rights. If they have rights, parents can't.
This is such a crucial distinction. The parents don't have a right to have their child educated; the child has a right to a good education. The parents don't have the right to participate in sport; the child does. And so on.
Once you reframe the idea like this, that children are human beings with their own rights, you see what a disingenous line of attack this is from the right wing.
Parents have an awesome responsibility: the care and management of the human rights of beings not able to assert them for themselves. But it must be clear that the rights belong to the children, and that they are being safeguarded, not owned, by the parents.
This simple conceptual shift shows that children should have full bodily autonomy, including consent to touch from anyone, and including the right to present as the gender they want. The right to religion, or freedom from it if they want. The rights are theirs, and the parents should have no power to abrogate those rights without due care and consideration.
Yes, by the way, I am a parent, as well as a grandparent. I stand by this. My kids are not my property, never were.
It's amusing to me that star trek imagined a world where an AI faces social rejection because he's rational, fact based, literal, fiercely/dogmatically moral, and struggles with social nuance. But here in reality we invented AIs that have no concept of truth, give zero fucks about accuracy, have no rationality, and can't do math, but match vibes and tone nearly perfectly.
The first artificial person will not be an autistic science officer. It'll be an extremely allistic salesbro or politician.
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re: plurality, sysmeds
@mavica_again we've seen the validity of non-traumagenic systems explained as something that helps traumagenic systems too. it allows for exploring the possibility without dismissing it due to not knowing about their trauma, or trying to examine trauma they're not ready for (if the brain hides something from itself, it's probably for a reason)
When you see "WARNING: REMOTE HOST IDENTIFICATION HAS CHANGED!" this morning, go here:
https://github.blog/2023-03-23-we-updated-our-rsa-ssh-host-key/
Found this in my music library. I have no memory of it at all. Thanks, past me. https://testwolfalice.bandcamp.com/album/my-love-is-cool