@hollie I am vaguely aware but choose to take it at face value anyway.
@stefenauris @herbincowgirl
No, it's not pain or trauma that teaches us to be sympathetic or compassionate.
We only recover from trauma when we have support from our community and from other people around us to help us heal. That healing doesn't just "happen", and therapy isn't enough. There's no path for recovering from trauma without other people participating in our healing process.
Some people don't recover from trauma. That's not to say that they never will—but it's not going to happen alone. It was more than 5-10 years before I found the help I needed to recover from some of my experiences.
Trauma didn't give me empathy. Trauma gave me fear, anger, cynicism, and nihilism. It's the people who helped me that supported me in growing my understanding and compassion and patience, and turned me from cynicism toward hopeful curiosity.
#rb to make a #biological #essentialist mad <3
“This collapse is a telltale sign of a problem known as publication bias. Small, early #studies which found a significant #sex difference were likelier to get published than #research finding no male-female #brain difference.”
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A question and poll for my fellow autistics. Please boost to expand reach.
In Temple Grandin's book, Thinking In Pictures, she describes her development of her compression machine or a hug box, which she used to self administer deep compression therapy and it helped to calm her.
But I'm wondering if any autistics in the fediverse have ever tried wearing corsets, because it seems to me that some of us might find they provide therapeutic stimulation.
Have you worn a corset?
@Crell I've had "Full public profile" turned off for a long time because as I understood it, the creators you support have always defaulted to public.
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https://twitch.tv/madewokherd Trying out BIT.TRIP RERUNNER.
There's a phenomenon with internet arguments that I think of as "eternal crossfire" where everybody talks about what they've experienced directly as though that is the one and only thing that is happening everywhere, and any attempt to clarify that it's not the entire story is seen as an attack. And every single side involved in the argument does the same thing, making the conflict impossible to deesecalate. Bad actors love this shit. They can just set off explosives on every side and watch them destroy each other.
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https://twitch.tv/madewokherd More Klonoa. I looked up a walkthrough for the screen where I got stuck last time.
ars technica: we don't know how they did it but google chrome now extracts a pint of blood every time you log on
chrome user, dizzy from blood loss: I swear to god I am like this close to switching to firefox
another chrome user, on the verge of fainting from severe blood loss: no need to resort to that, just switch to [insert today's trendy chrome fork here] and be smart like meeee
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https://twitch.tv/madewokherd How much more Klonoa can there be?
@recursive Sorry to hear it, I am prone to that sort of problem and try to select for people who don't do that.