I think what it's going to take is using capital letters in your toots.
Hear me out here: when people see a toot with no capital letters at all, they will assume that's part of your writing style (which is fine) but when they then go on to write to or about you they will use their own writing style (which does use capitals) and they might not realise that the lack of a capital on your name is part of the name, rather than just part of how you write.
@The4thCircle the gripe here is that i can hardly get people to care about the things i make let alone care beyond that and every time i have tried to have "my own voice" i'm scolded and told i'm doing it wrong, or being abusive and aggressive, or worse
i think at this point i'm just doomed to never be respected