i wish i had the patience and knowledge of linux wms to configure a wm i like but linux is absolutely cryptic

mate is ok but it's hard to find the programs i want other than memorizing terminal lines

fvwm was nice but crashed too much

xfce has good usability but looks awful

plus gnome themes just suck a lot and for some reason absolutely none of them use the gnome color customization on mate

like any theme i throw at it shows the theme's colors but actually changing them is grayed out like what's the point

anyway this is me griping about a thing in my usual frustrated fashion of "if i can't do it it must mean it's impossible and anyone telling me otherwise is lying" because i have bad mental health hi how's your day

if you have any desire at all to actually hands-on help me make my linux desktop experience more enjoyable please let me know

people who will just link me to a thing and not personally help me set it up need not apply