Harp the Wigglytuff @wigglytuffitout@computerfairi.es

P.S. THIS ALSO GOES FOR MIQOTE IN FFXIV AND OTHER CATGIRLS

LOOK AT MY CATGIRL. SHE HAS THE LONG FLOOFY TAIL.

HER PUBES?

SIMILARLY MAGNIFICENT.

HAURCHEFANT GLADLY FLOSSED HIS TEETH MANY A TIME DOWN THERE.

IF YOU AIN'T GONNA AT LEAST GIVE A LANDING STRIP, YOU A COWARD

if you're a furry artist and you draw some furry lewds and yet somehow the genitals are MYSTERIOUSLY FUR-FREE in texture and presentation, especially if there's just a vagina hangin out there all like Whoops! No Hair! No Pubic Hair Would Ever Happen To A Furry!

you are a COWARD and a KNAVE and a FOOL

and i challenge you to a DUEL. PISTOLS. AT DAWN, SIRRAH. AT DAWN

"harp you can probably quit at some point when the person looks as if they've logged off"

nope sorry everyone the matronly sermon continues until it finishes as per schedule. fortunately now we break for coffee and snacks in the lobby. i baked mini scones today too! you're welcome.

@Dayglochainsaw express concerns compassionately, and in ways that are useful. you will probably find that you can help in ways you didn't know about, or that you might have more concrete knowledge about. or you might find reassurance that quiets your worries.

take compassion, reflect it out, turn it in towards yourself, too.

it's ok to just not understand. it's not ok to be an asshole about it.

right, that's my sermon for tonight lmfao

@Dayglochainsaw it is a very efficient way to hurt the other person by making them feel like you view an essential element they value highly in themselves as bullshit, and make them entrench deeper into what you may genuinely be worried is behavior reinforcing mental illness.

it is also not kind to yourself, to treat relating to other humans this way.

@Dayglochainsaw if you're worried about a particular person exhibiting some behavior, and if that behavior is detrimental to their mental health, think about if it is truly useful or kind to go "you really think you're a kitten or whatever?! that's so stupid!", and similar attitudes, such as "hate me all you want! it's good! i WANTED you to hate me! it's GOOD that people are hating me over some TRIVIAL BULLSHIT THAT DOESN'T MATTER!"

is that useful?

is that kind?

to them? to you?

@Dayglochainsaw no single entity on this earth - human, goldfish, what fucking ever - is going to be able to perfectly understand *everything*. i'm never going to know what it's like for a bat to process the world via echolocation - i literally ain't got the neurons for it.

it is terrifying to admit that we can be measured and found wanting. but *everything* is found wanting in one aspect or another.

extend the compassion around to yourself and just go, "i don't get it, and that's ok."

@Dayglochainsaw a quick thought, from someone who is non-kin and also had trouble with this:

i realized that i didn't need to understand perfectly in order to respect it.

it might confuse me, baffle me, and make my brain BSOD. but they understand it, and it is very important to them. it is an essential part of them.

i can be befuddled, but i remember the love i have for my kin friends, and the compassion i try to extend to others, and go "i don't understand and that's ok."

it's freeing.

ok google, how to tell dr you know pain is bad because it's suicidal ideation o'clock without getting slammed in an involuntary psych hold

i don't want anything unreasonable, ok?

i dont need to run marathons

i dont mind being in some pain

i just want to be able to take more than two showers a week

i just want to be able to reliably get to eat 3 meals a day and not 2 or 1 or 0 and just have to graze on snacks because i'm so nauseated from being in pain

why is that so impossible

thank goodness i have a switch so i can not have to aggravate my shoulder with typing in order to stay sane

i am however showing up 15 years late to the party:

okami is a pretty good game it seems

so my shoulder has decided to punt me into massive pain land

finally managed to eat an actual meal though. i hate pain nausea so much. gotta call doc tomorrow.

but yeah if i'm not around tons that's what's up

@Rei@snouts.online AAAA THESE ARE SO CUTE..........

@eightbitsamurai@elekk.xyz AAA THAT IS ADORABLE 😍

and i bet it works out very nice for the ducks lmao, having scary geese for neighbors

anyone who thinks feathers ruined dinosaurs being scary has never encountered an angry goose

@eightbitsamurai@elekk.xyz O: have the duckies made some goose friends too??? i know around here it's not totally uncommon

but also the reverse is not totally uncommon because canadian geese are fucking mean bastards

one of the great realizations of adulthood for me has been that i don't need to understand somebody to respect them

like... i'm not trans. i struggle to comprehend some aspects. or kin folks. or folks who enjoy doing math for fun. even if these concepts kind of make my brain go error 404 not found, it don't mean i gotta fight that shit. i can just say i can't relate and that's fine and i can be cool about it anyway.