@JaniceSelbie This is great advice! Atheism is just a lack of belief in a god - but there's so much more than that, as it turns out, to becoming an atheist!
I wish someone had shared this with me 20 years ago, when I became an atheist - it wouldn't have changed my rational, intellectual, choice one iota, but man is it hard to separate the real 'you' from the 'you' defined by the tensions between your rational independent self and the childhood/familial/communal psyche you broke from.
At least, that's how it's been for me, coming from a religious household and community whose identity and worldview are inseparable from their religion. So atheism didn't just mean a break with God, it meant a break with my family, their lifestyle, their aspirations, their community, even their politics.
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ADVICE TO NEW #atheists
1. Mourn your losses of #identity community, & worldview
2. Read βLeaving the Foldβ
3. Subscribe to https://youtube.com/@ComeToCORT
4. Get a secular #therapist
5. Beware the pull of #fundamentalism in any sphere
6. Educate yourself about how #beliefs form (Hassanβs BITE Model)
7. Learn about #codependency
8. See that anger is both a part of the grieving process & an indication of boundary violation
9. Build a supportive #secular network
10. Be compassionate with yourself
Some years ago, I was having a lovely afternoon reading a book in Point Pleasant Park in #Halifax, when I heard this loud chittering above me. Looking up, this cute little guy was giving me one hell of a scolding, lol. Happily had the camera nearby
#photography #WildlifePhotography #NovaScotia #squirrel #WildlifeWednesday
Sunk cost fallacy, writ large.
Itβs easy to make fun of these bizarre rationalizations. But this is scary: Faced with young people and the clear majority of Americans more generally turning their backs on them, Republicans show no signs of introspection or moderation - but embrace conspiracy theories instead.
"The practice of the Supreme Court policing itself needs to end. The members of the court should be made to abide by the same laws as other government employees. They're one of the three branches of our government and we have a right to know who's buying them"
"Maybe the rest of the Supreme Court should expel Thomas. I hear that's popular now"
http://claytoonz.com/2023/04/08/report-the-booty/
Happy? Easter from
#ClayJones
#ClayToonz
Because these have some of his best Easter eggs
Angry yet still LMAO!
A Jewish woman who aligns herself with the people who coordinated and led the "Jews will not replace us" chanters.
Mental illness is the only explanation.
New report that Donald Trump wanted to add racist grifter Laura Loomer to his campaign for the White House in 2024.
Loomer has extensive connections to neo-Nazis and white supremacists. During her failed bid for a congressional seat in Florida, she was supported by then ally, Milo Yiannopoulos, when then went on to work with Nick Fuentes and Kanye West.
Loomer was also a recent speaker at the white supremacist, "American Renaissance" conference, known for hosting such neo-Nazis as Richard Spencer, Nick Fuentes, and David Duke.
https://www.nytimes.com/2023/04/07/us/politics/trump-laura-loomer.html
M51: X Rays from the Whirlpool
Credits: #NASA, CXC, Wesleyan U., et al., #NASA, STScI
#nature #space #astrophotography
When we bought our house we planted many flowering bushes designed to attract hummingbirds, and installed fountains. It worked, every year we have hummingbirds nesting around our yard. It surprised me how territorial and absolutely fearless they are. I can't count the number of times I've been strafed by a hummingbird.
So... me. Work in aerospace, more space, not as much aero. Can fix my own car, choose not to. Can fix the random appliance of your choice. Hardcore introvert in person, which is why I love online. Lifelong science fiction fan. Read constantly. Scalzi is my favorite author, because he mixes exactly the right amount of snark into his writing. Together with a guy 30+ years, married since it was legal. Own a home in CA and don't plan to leave unless I immigrate to another country.