The day @KevBot and I both became βfully vaxxedβ in May of 2021, we went out to this restaurant with a patio for our first public dining experience in over a year.
It was cold AF but we were just happy to be βfreeβ and we took a photo of each other to commemorate the moment.
This resulted in us starting a tradition of taking photos wherever weβd go and I kept compiling them into 9x9 grids until I got up to 144 photos and was finally like okay, Alice, thatβs enough.
I realize itβs ridiculously excessive, but weβd spent the prior year not even knowing if weβd ever be able to go to a restaurant again and we didnβt know how long it was going to last, so we were just trying to take advantage of it while we could.
Iβm Bendix, a queer sex worker and artist. I love cats and sci-fi, and goth will never leave my heart. My trans*ness and disability inform much of what I do and maybe even more of what I don't do. Iβm sex positive, a tired activist, a lover of bdsm and retro video games, a life-long student of marginalised thinking, and in every little thing I do thereβs some art and caring to be found.
Iβm here to show art and nsfw stuff, and build my own little utopia of the anti-normative.
When people are coming over, I don't "tidy up", I rip the house apart, clean all the pieces, then rebuild it.
Not contradictory, just autistic. I miss having people I can talk to - really talk to. But I also hate crowds, parties, nearly ever kind of social gathering. I don't know, maybe if there was a party just for NT people.
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From past experience, I don't categorize people as friends, usually. I have several acquaintances, people I might go to a restaurant or a movie with, but friends are a different category. Friends are people I wouldn't worry about cleaning the house and making everything "just right" before they get here.
I think that's just rude, to only invite your ass. They should invite all of you.
#AskingAutistics Does anyone have good suggestions to quickly find remote work, full or part time, for #ActuallyAutistc people who dread phone calls? Asking for me. πββοΈ
I'm shocked you'd feel that way about such a Great Actor. Just shocked.
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Yeah, I sorta doubt you are. π
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And to this day, when I'm walking down the sidewalk, I avoid stepping on the seams between sections. I set my stride so my feet always land on the solid surface.
Or they're looking to hire a token they can point to, when people ask about their hiring practices.
My parents were (probably still are) fundamentalist wackjobs. It made things interesting.
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I used to tell people I bitterly resented being promised flying cars and didn't get one, but one day I was walking around someone's backyard, having a video chat with someone 3 states away on my tablet, and I stopped and realized "Oh, yeah, this is the future. This, right here."
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I don't think so. My life was much the same, in a small town in Utah. My haven was the public library, and I went where ever I wanted, and got books from every section (but lived in the Science Fiction section). It let me know there was a lot more out there than I ever saw in my little town, and gave me hope that I could be part of it.
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Secret Service was in touch with the #OathKeepers. An agent described himself as βthe unofficial liaison to the Oath Keepers (inching towards official),β and called the fascist group "very pro-LEO and pro-Trump." Said they were defending Trumpers from violent leftists.
The #MAGA rot runs deep.
So... me. Work in aerospace, more space, not as much aero. Can fix my own car, choose not to. Can fix the random appliance of your choice. Hardcore introvert in person, which is why I love online. Lifelong science fiction fan. Read constantly. Scalzi is my favorite author, because he mixes exactly the right amount of snark into his writing. Together with a guy 30+ years, married since it was legal. Own a home in CA and don't plan to leave unless I immigrate to another country.