in all seriousness one of the most obnoxious things about mental health is the chicken-egg problem of feeling too bad to do things that will make you feel better

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**Aura V.** @auravulpes@computerfairi.es · Nov 21, 2019, 01:48

**Aura V.** @auravulpes@computerfairi.es · Nov 21, 2019, 01:48

Nov 21, 2019, 01:48

Aura V. @auravulpes@computerfairi.es

Inspired by my time at the park today, I present a story about a demon, a powerful relic, and one small child:
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/33911167/

**Aura V.** · Nov 20, 2019, 21:56

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**Ame !** @hy@chitter.xyz · Nov 20, 2019, 21:56

Nov 20, 2019, 21:56

Ame ! @hy@chitter.xyz

tails is like "TRANS RIGHTS !!! YEET !!!!!" and dabs, setting off powder paint bombs behind her

**Aura V.** @auravulpes@computerfairi.es · Nov 20, 2019, 23:53

**Aura V.** @auravulpes@computerfairi.es · Nov 20, 2019, 23:53

Nov 20, 2019, 23:53

Aura V. @auravulpes@computerfairi.es

kink

nothing like walking into your apartment and seeing the words "SUB OF THE DAY" on your TV

**Aura V.** @auravulpes@computerfairi.es · Nov 20, 2019, 17:23

**Aura V.** @auravulpes@computerfairi.es · Nov 20, 2019, 17:23

Nov 20, 2019, 17:23

Aura V. @auravulpes@computerfairi.es

Me: *sitting in quiet lobby using my phone*
Phone: *decides to randomly start playing music*
Me: ono

**Aura V.** @auravulpes@computerfairi.es · Nov 20, 2019, 01:28

**Aura V.** @auravulpes@computerfairi.es · Nov 20, 2019, 01:28

Nov 20, 2019, 01:28

Aura V. @auravulpes@computerfairi.es

plural (~)

We may need to set up a system of secondary fronting, as all the headmates who aren't fronting tend to exist in the same physical space as our physical body. We may need to find some way to allow only one permanent to exist in the physical space, while the other(s) exist in some new headspace.

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**Aura V.** @auravulpes@computerfairi.es · Nov 20, 2019, 01:24

**Aura V.** @auravulpes@computerfairi.es · Nov 20, 2019, 01:24

Nov 20, 2019, 01:24

Aura V. @auravulpes@computerfairi.es

plural (~)

And, of course, I put quotes around permanent as, clearly, they aren't, well, permanent. But they're the headmates that stick around in my day to day life, rather than coming and going within a few days.

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**Aura V.** @auravulpes@computerfairi.es · Nov 20, 2019, 01:23

**Aura V.** @auravulpes@computerfairi.es · Nov 20, 2019, 01:23

Nov 20, 2019, 01:23

Aura V. @auravulpes@computerfairi.es

plural (~)

So, we're pretty sure we're plural and we think we've figured out how our system works. I won't go into details, but I will say it only really works with only one "permanent" headmate and any number of transient headmates. This is problematic as one of my previous permanents (Jade) is trying to return, but my current permanent (Miles) is showing no signs of leaving. We may need to spend some time sorting this mess of a system out.

**Aura V.** @auravulpes@computerfairi.es · Nov 19, 2019, 21:32

**Aura V.** @auravulpes@computerfairi.es · Nov 19, 2019, 21:32

Nov 19, 2019, 21:32

Aura V. @auravulpes@computerfairi.es

mh (-)

Ah, great. I'm thinking that I am, in fact, bipolar and that my meds may need to be adjusted. I can feel that downwards slope starting. On the bright side, I can see it. On the downside, how the hell do I stop it?

**Aura V.** · Nov 18, 2019, 21:26

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Nov 18, 2019, 21:26

Nov 18, 2019, 21:26

Grace is a bad name for me but it's my name anyway @grace_in_name_only@computerfairi.es

if you're paid to work you're a worker

if you're paid to own property you are unnecessary

sorry

**Aura V.** · Nov 18, 2019, 21:17

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**(Inactive) Hourly Fox** @hourlyfoxbot@botsin.space · Nov 18, 2019, 21:17

Nov 18, 2019, 21:17

(Inactive) Hourly Fox @hourlyfoxbot@botsin.space

Republished from: https://twitter.com/tatsunami/status/1195731633057325056

**Aura V.** · Nov 17, 2019, 20:59

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***stims seductively*** @Plugs@monsterpit.net · Nov 17, 2019, 20:59

Nov 17, 2019, 20:59

*stims seductively* @Plugs@monsterpit.net

Antikink rhetoric is ableist

Some people, due to being ND or disabled, cannot engage in vanilla sex.

Either it is too painful, uncomfortable or just boring.

For some with chronic pain, pain play is a way to gain control over the concept of the pain they experience.

Some autistic people gain no pleasure from vanilla sex due to sensory issues, but find pleasure in kink.

For some, vanilla sex isn’t something they’re physically capable of, or is very uncomfortable, but kink is pleasurable and comfortable to preform.

Some autistic people enjoy ‘unusual’ kinks, for some of us it is the only thing we sexually engage with.

Antikink sentiment directly harms disabled people and our sexual expression.

**Aura V.** · Nov 17, 2019, 19:35

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**Bab [he/they/ey/thon]** @babbage@deadinsi.de · Nov 17, 2019, 19:35

Nov 17, 2019, 19:35

Bab [he/they/ey/thon] @babbage@deadinsi.de

ice cold take, free software and nazis

free software is great but have you considered that "free speech" is an alt-right dogwhistle and that you should focus on protecting minorities instead of submitting to nazis and marketing your software as "free speech"