weight talk
#fatboyfall has officially turned to #fatboywinter
Thank goodness I have built up a layer of warm, soft, protective chub, as part of the natural cycle of things
pedophilia, sexual abuse
Sometimes I wonder why I get so frightened and avoidant when people show romantic/sexual attention to me, and then I remember my adoptive family just shrugged their shoulders and let this person stay in my life for two decades.
pedophilia, sexual abuse
I was not conscious of hating them for being pervy.
I just didn't like them touching my butt all the time, staring at me dreamily, grabbing me to kiss me, and demanding they be allowed to wash me or come into the bathroom while I was trying to use the toilet.
In my child-brain, with no concept of perviness, this was just them being a loathsome and annoying person I didn't want anywhere near me.
pedophilia, sexual abuse
https://medium.com/survivors/the-stages-of-sexual-grooming-every-parent-should-know-6e98fb444f9f
Reading this article and realizing that I was groomed very incompetently as a child. They forgot the step where the child has to not fucking hate you for being a perv.
light upon light is a hategroup actively attempting to infiltrate leftist organizations. click link for thread, i am too sleepy to copy and paste the whole thing. https://twitter.com/antifashgordon/status/1208456608965156864?s=21
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@Anarchist_Mallrat
adhd-ahamilton:
“Were there any straight people in this period of history?”
“Well...obviously speaking, there must have been some people that nowadays
we would describe as ‘straight’, but we have to be very careful about applying
modern standards of sexuality to the past. I'm sure if you asked anybody at the
time if they were straight, they would have been very confused. And there's
something quite dangerous about forcing identities onto people who might not
consider themselves that way. You also need to keep in mind that some things
that today would seem ‘straight’ to us - like getting married, having children, etc. -
were just the way things were back then. Nobody would have thought twice about
doing that, including non-straight people. And there were plenty of people who
undoubtedly got married, had very intensely emotional connections with their
spouse, but then went off to go see their lover. Again, sexuality is a very complex
thing, so I wouldn't presume to state definitively that anybody was ‘straight’, and
especially not without good, solid evidence that they were exclusively
heterosexual, To presume otherwise would not only be making a lot of
assumptions, it might even just promote harmful, overdone stereotypes about
what makes someone ‘have’ to be straight, you know? So, yes, technically
speaking there were, but I don't see any reason to specifically consider straight
people historically.”
CATS is getting a patch??????
https://twitter.com/mike_blacklist/status/1208139131391332352?s=19
Trans, guy of center, well over 18.
I'm in tech and it feels weird.