(reply thread) Aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB
Thank you too, this sort of solidarity is vital ❤ especially when we're this actively invisiblised
(reply thread) Aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB, selfie, ec
It really is just lateral violence. Queer communities came up with aspec vocabulary and it's disproportionately internet queers who identify as aspec, because the vocabulary hasn't come close to mainstreaming yet.
And thank you 😊 I'm no longer that pink, because the bleach was damaging my hair. Now I'm this:
(reply thread) Aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB, old selfie, ec in sunglasses
The amount of people I've had call me a cishet for this. And friendly reminder, I looked like this when I came out as aspec:
Aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB
We're treated like such fucking garbage online... on FB I've gotten so much shit for even tentatively discussing this stuff. The reaching and bizarre conspiratorial ideas people have about us are so depressing...
Aphobia, sex
Something we don't talk about enough: the desexualisation of aspec people.
The mere fact that this sentence sounds like an absurdity to so many is proof of how pervasive it is.
Many aspec people fuck. Many aspec people have active, healthy sex lives.
Our sex is completely different to allosexual sex, but it is still sex.
The assumption that aspec people never have sex- and that if we do it's trauma/internalised oppression- is deeply insulting and harmful.
@Quinntessential I do robots I can help uwu
@KitsuneAlicia@octodon.social @Sir_Boops *cue sad music*
@evie I can't believe JKR put an end to heterosexuals
@evie it was you! you were the gay all along, you just had to believe in yourself.
queer/geek/artist/entomologist/professional regiphagist
transphobes/aphobes/biphobes/panphobes and pedos please kindly fuck off