transition, identity
@poss_bot aaaaaagh. agh. A+ #1 top fear about dealing with medical folks. >.<
transition, identity
@poss_bot holy heck that's a lot to deal with while figuring yourself out.
and it's interesting that you came to the genderless and neuroatypical places after the transness! it was flipped for me, where i realized there was Somethign Going On as a teenager (brainstuff, ***** stuff, a/sexuality weirdness) but i had a bunch of emotional cruft to work thru, then i got to have a fun couple of moments with gender.
@Oneironott blimpfriends???
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@Oneironott toyfriend is perfect and beautifull???????
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@poss_bot i don't know how this happened, but it's never a bad time to Be Nice To Coda
breakups (--)
jeez. tonight, second time in a month that friends have broken off a long-term and seemingly stable relationship. it's getting to me, since in both cases i like both sides and
i'm dealing with some stuff myself, and i don't feel like i can be a very good support right now, i know i need to set boundaries and take care of myself. it doesn't feel great but
agh.
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translation: Coda is super nice and good and they've made a tanuki feel welcome and valid a lot! i like them. πβ¨
stress thoughts about posting art
@chuxen@queer.party real mood >.> there's a couple reasons i'm not on tumblr, but any more details would be just me being dramatic about something i'm over.
still though! it's a good place to have an audience? i met a lot of really cool folks there and had my ideas about life gently massaged a few times π
@daylight eggleg, fierce and smol child, many worrie, they hold they head up tall. quality bobtail, 12/10. bless.
misgendering (comic link)
@coda it was the reminder that i'm a valid thing, and omigosh such good hecking rage! hrrRRMF!
misgendering (comic link)
@heytanuki "sick of compromising on identity for the sake of straight people" is a big mood
hi my name is tanuki (they/them), i'm a tanuki. ace, diamoric, still unabashedly adoring fat people. enby af. that means nonbinary. it's a term i prefer.
building a gender out of scrap parts.
maybe you knew me before. if you have questions, just ask~