tanuki~ @heytanuki@computerfairi.es

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hey Ark, I hope you're doing awesome!

I've changed a bit, but I'm still the same! really happy to be seeing old friends here and it reminds me how cluttered birdsite is 💖

@jankar80 gweee thanks! 💖 💜 💗

@Tobi thank you! 💖 💖 💖

I like this drawing even tho it was just a quick sketch and isn't the best but heck

@tanuki2000 I'm imagining them wow

my sister in law is having a baby and like, that's cool and all! I got added to a group chat with all of their friends and holy heck. no one knows how to use punctuation and it's already led to a baby false alarm

also it reminds me of how gendered people are and it's gross. I feel icky. muting for mental health reasons, I'll have Cran fill me in when the moment happens

ugh

I feel.... illegal.

@daylight they're amazing! what if I find a bone mask in my fireplace, is that ok, should I return it?

@daylight pls yes, show me your ocs <3

also i'm not saying "confrontation is a male thing" because it's not, but more in terms of tendencies and probabilities. i have confronted people; it doesn't make me more male to have done so

but it's more my feelings on it

just meandering thoughts idk, i just had the feeling of a mental tangle undoing itself

someone told me once "gender is a performance" and i was like "well that's bs" but i think they meant unconsciously performing gender.

i'm always at odds with what's expected of me and what i tend to "perform." quotes there because it's an unconscious performance. ask me to confront someone, i'll go down a mood spiral of deeply bad thoughtfeels before i realize what's going on.

that's just one example but tbh lots of things i don't are asked of me bc of how i'm perceived

. @tanuki2000 here it is! i have shamelessly ripped it from somewhere, like so many of the internal emoji

okay i added a tanuki emoji to work's slack instance

@Ren_Ardana oh sorry! i was on a tear refollowing people who followed me, and i saw the "please interact" in your profile so i undid it?

so that's probably why you had at least one request email, without an account to approve. x3

@sylverfyre@queer.af i'll check that out!

i dunno if anyone else does this, but on my Android phone, i just pinned computerfairi.es to my home screen. every instance works as a progressive webapp and i get notifications and stuff, seems to work really well!

i did this on an iPad also so i think it works in iOS

@kandyelmo Tiffany positivity!