tanuki~ @heytanuki@computerfairi.es

the app is called Pastel Girl but I'm making magical enbys

I can't tell if it's the tiredness or lack of motivation that has kept me laying awake in bed for the past 3-4 hrs without just getting up and doing something else. normally I would go try to do something until I fall asleep but it's 58% "don't wanna" and 44% "I can't"

heavens to burgatory I am sleepy and YET

the best time to edit your profile is when you are very tired and everything is funny for no reason

i can't even with how cute that tiny thread is, bless

my nails are getting long enough to interfere with touchscreen typing and it's: ~annoying and validating~

I feel like that's kind of a lifestyle for me lately

how do you know if someone is being receptive in a good way? how to be a good support for someone with anxiety?

it is: listen, offer experiences and realistic assessments. not all anxiety is unfounded. proper boundaries can help mitigate it, and this sometimes means being real about the worrying thing

it is not: downplaying it, "everyone feels like that sometimes," generalizing it or trying to invalidate it. not "that's a silly fear."

yes: listening & empathy
no: denying it

it's okay to experience anxiety. it's okay to talk about it. you may not know how, or what it comes from, but you are valid even with anxiety.

eliminating it isn't a matter of a brute-force attack, but a long process of talking to yourself and receptive people* about it.

while it's a common thing, I suspect that there's a special way q folks experience it and I want to hug alla y'all

*next toot

I'm not supposed to touch my ear piercings but I keep accidentally brushing up against them. on one hand it's. "omigosh this makes me super happy" and then a moment later "oh shit I hope I'm not gonna get an infection"

I'm not gonna, the shop is right around the corner from me, and they said I can stop by anytime if I think anything is up

hahaha ahhhh.

some noodling on an A section I made over the weekend, not even sure what else to do with it atm but it is dreamy

https://photos.app.goo.gl/KYStXH4jDno4C5uy6

i'm following more robots/semi-robotic life forms than i expected to and i love it

got my ears pierced yesterday and I love them so much. love this ear stud. heck.

still got some purple dye on me too

they’re here to set you free

correction to earlier, mercury is actually out of retrograde already, i timezone’d wrong

@Hulex sorry no more Mappy for mercury. play your game machine tomorrow

i’d draw more but i need sleep and

ayyyyyy only a little over 30 minutes of mercury retrograde left, be safe and nice everyone 💖

oh no i can just draw right into masto????

oh no???????

“immobile cuddle object” is my new band