Esme Povirk @madewokherd@computerfairi.es
Joined Aug 2018
re9: hypnokink objectification mindfuckery poll consequences
@lioness yt-dlp can download files from soundcloud. Soundcloud has autoplay that I don't think can be turned off, and I've observed the autoplay choosing bad (abusive) hypno so I would not recommend listening to a hypno file on it, ever, nor putting them there.
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https://twitch.tv/madewokherd Starting another randomizer because I have no restraint.
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Reading about a construct I've been wanting to know better for a while: self-compassion!
"one of the advantages of self-compassion over self-esteem is that self-compassion is not based on the performance evaluations of self and others, or on congruence with ideal standards. Rather, self-compassion circumvents the entire self-evaluation process altogether (positive or negative), focusing instead on feelings of kindness and [...] recognition of one’s common humanity" (Neff et al. 2005)
@sota767 That's what I'd expect. I don't see them on my main timeline in the web interface, or in Tusky.
@sota767 Do you have a notifications tab?
@Sophie I also ended up with that group for 1 day, not because I had any trouble swimming, but they asked me if I could tread water (I could) and I didn't know what that meant. I then proceeded to scare the instructor by doing that the entire time.
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I needed to understand the angles on Threads federation in a more rigorous way, so I took a few days to think through and write up my sense of the benefits, risks, and available risk mitigations, along with loopholes that need closing and questions to discuss with fediverse administrators.
This is a blisteringly hot subject for me, so it's hard to keep my head cool enough to understand other people's trade-offs, but I'm trying.
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normal gamedev: all bugs must be squashed! this build is bug free. 🚫🐛
indie gamedev: yay a weird bug! i will gain its trust, befriend it, and make it a feature. ❤️🐛
kink, speech restriction, "you", parasocial interaction //
@lioness io
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https://twitch.tv/madewokherd Streaming BIT.TRIP Runner with untested settings on upgraded Internet connection. I hope nothing breaks.
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While I don't believe in wasting empathy on fascists, when I see people posting "fascists aren't people" stuff I feel sick to my stomach because this kind of dehumanization of people we hate (even if they hate us) is fascist thinking. Fascists are people, terrible people who wish or don't care if they do the rest of us harm, but still human beings. This doesn't mean we have to indulge them, it just means that when we dehumanize other people we are in the process of becoming fascists ourselves (no matter how loudly we yell "freedom"). Freedom comes with responsibilities if you're not a fascist and one of those responsibilities is to recognize that we're all human, even the people we don't like or who may want to kill us.
term with mostly nsfw usage but sfw in this case
Update: Cole is a femboy (he/him or she/her pronouns) and would probably be interested in presenting femme regardless of being plural.
The system is still a trans woman while individually Cole is not.
-Gaspar
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Ibly 🏳️⚧️ 
twitch rolled back the sexual content stuff after less than a day
spineless cowards lmfao
spineless cowards lmfao
Unironically love when a deadlock happens and I have to stop everything and investigate because who knows when it'll happen again to a developer?
Oh hey I guess Threads started federating. My instance's admin has been blocking Threads since July, and I hope others do the same.
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Dropbox spooks users by sending data to OpenAI for AI search features
Feature opt-out by default bothers users who like to keep their files private.
@b0rk I work with submodules a lot and unfortunately "git submodule update" leaves the submodules in detached head state, so it's common for me to not be on a branch.
@b0rk typically I do something like:
git branch -f main # only if I wasn't on a branch
gitk # to make sure I'm pushing only the commits I intend
git push origin main
@b0rk I didn't know "git push" cared about the current branch at all. I always specified a branch to push, which works fine in "detached head state". I never use "git pull" (combining the "fetch" and "merge" steps into one makes me feel unsure about what's going to happen) so I don't know if it's similar.
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I really dislike the common line of reasoning that "being gay/trans isn't wrong because they were born this way/it's not a choice". That's not why it isn't wrong. It isn't wrong because it doesn't cause any harm to anyone. If being gay was a choice it'd be just as okay morally!
This is important because sexual attraction and gender identity can naturally change over the course of one's life. Under the framework of "it's only ok if they're born like this" that can be seen as problematic. It forces people to stay quiet about their experiences if their identity changes at all and especially if some external factor was a catalyst for that. And so what if it was? What if some experience "made you bi"? There's still nothing wrong with that!
Joined Aug 2018
