One reason why plural gatekeeping is flawed as heck.
My plural stuff can be summed up as I have too much ASD to be diagnosed and not enough disorder to have DID. But I clearly have trauma and plural.
In short, this is one of the reasons why ‘you need to have X type of plurality to be valid’ is shitty bc weird edge cases like me are invalidated.
Despite being a traumagenic system I can’t get a DID diagnosis and don’t fit the criteria quite.
self-promo, UK politics, sarcastic, resending because the link was broken first time
As promised: my latest EP, Lies Dying, has just been released! I would like to thank @Fidgetcetera for providing the cover image, and our hard-working politicians for providing the inspiration and samples. https://loosechangeling.bandcamp.com/album/lies-dying
Chronic pain / pain meds / things not to say
If someone mentions their chronic pain, please don’t say ‘have you taken painkillers?’
Because
A. We have. We’re still in pain.
B. We haven’t but can’t rn for some reason.
C. We can’t take painkillers.
Unless you know someone very well and that they appreciate being reminded it’s an option it’s kinda not a good thing to ask.
@autistikai end me I looked up each symbol on wikipedia and was disappointed every single time
@Aleums the only surefire way to know if you're a lesbian is to be told by another lesbian that you are not a lesbian and have it hurt your feelings
a bug, not a feature.
Genderless* cyberfae & co. at your service
assigned adult by the inexorable passage of time
don't use he/him or she/her pronouns for any of us without express permission
note that if we ever make you uncomfortable in any way please tell us so we know to stop. we're not always good at figuring these things out on our own