(reply thread) Heavy aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB
@lyliawisteria
@DragonessDella@octodon.social @Gaynebula
They just love to play victim to collect clouts. Tankies are essentially social capitalists.
(reply thread) Heavy aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB
It's so much easier for aphobia to thrive online because it's all derived from butchered theory. The microsecond it enters an in-person space, it's either snuffed out or the space collapses at best into infamous toxicity, at worst literally just imploding and existing no more.
It's also fundamentally a capitalist phenomenon, coming from other social media, so its presence here is worrying...
(reply thread) Heavy aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB
@DragonessDella@octodon.social @lyliawisteria @Gaynebula
Jorts.horse: very chummy with Witches.live admin and let her on their Discord server where she calls cis heterosexual aromantics "Chads who don't wanna fuck." Even after that, the jorts.horse did nothing about her.
(reply thread) Aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB
@DragonessDella@octodon.social @lyliawisteria @Gaynebula
Witches.live: literally run by an aphobe(even though she's asexual) and is occupied by a massive number of aphobes. The admin said this:
(reply thread) Aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB
@DragonessDella@octodon.social @lyliawisteria @Gaynebula
Honey.church: Literally made by aphobes/anti-MOGAI for aphobes/anti-MOGAI . No surprise if later it will be filled up with truscums/transmeds.
(reply thread) Aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB
@lyliawisteria @Gaynebula @DragonessDella@octodon.social Yep.
berries.space: "no ace discourse" rule (this leads to a whole swarm of aphobes there), have at least 1 aphobic mod. Admin team would not remove them after multiple people complain.
@selenivm magpies are good
(reply thread) Aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB
@Gaynebula @DragonessDella@octodon.social Ugh I wish more Mastodon admins would be willing to block and isolate aphobic instances like berries.space, witches.live, jorts.horse and honey.church
there's an intersection between privilege and how much someone trusts in authority
basically, itβs like this. the more privilege you have, the less likely you are to have ever been at the wrong end of militarized police forces, unfortunate socioeconomic outcomes, and general institutional oppression
the ability to blindly assume good faith in all circumstances is not something that everyone gets to have. please understand this in your conversations with peers that maybe donβt have it as well.
(Reply thread) Aphobia, sex
Fuck. Yes. What the rest of the world sees as paradoxes and contradictions, we dive into and experience dimensions of emotion and sensation they could never comprehend from within their restrictive bubble.
Especially when my autism joins the party. Stims, asexuality and sex are a fucking delightful combo let me tell you π
(reply thread) Aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB
Where there's a hypervisible, there's always an invisible π it's such devastating violence
(reply thread) Aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB
Thank you too, this sort of solidarity is vital β€ especially when we're this actively invisiblised
(reply thread) Aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB, selfie, ec
It really is just lateral violence. Queer communities came up with aspec vocabulary and it's disproportionately internet queers who identify as aspec, because the vocabulary hasn't come close to mainstreaming yet.
And thank you π I'm no longer that pink, because the bleach was damaging my hair. Now I'm this:
(reply thread) Aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB, old selfie, ec in sunglasses
The amount of people I've had call me a cishet for this. And friendly reminder, I looked like this when I came out as aspec:
queer/geek/artist/entomologist/professional regiphagist
transphobes/aphobes/biphobes/panphobes and pedos please kindly fuck off