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@kittypuffreloaded

Fuck. Yes. What the rest of the world sees as paradoxes and contradictions, we dive into and experience dimensions of emotion and sensation they could never comprehend from within their restrictive bubble.

Especially when my autism joins the party. Stims, asexuality and sex are a fucking delightful combo let me tell you 😍

(reply thread) Aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB 

@DragonessDella

Where there's a hypervisible, there's always an invisible 😔 it's such devastating violence

(reply thread) Aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB 

@DragonessDella

Thank you too, this sort of solidarity is vital ❤ especially when we're this actively invisiblised

(reply thread) Aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB, selfie, ec 

@DragonessDella

It really is just lateral violence. Queer communities came up with aspec vocabulary and it's disproportionately internet queers who identify as aspec, because the vocabulary hasn't come close to mainstreaming yet.

And thank you 😊 I'm no longer that pink, because the bleach was damaging my hair. Now I'm this:

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@DragonessDella

The amount of people I've had call me a cishet for this. And friendly reminder, I looked like this when I came out as aspec:

Aphobia, sex, personal experiance with this. FB 

@DragonessDella

We're treated like such fucking garbage online... on FB I've gotten so much shit for even tentatively discussing this stuff. The reaching and bizarre conspiratorial ideas people have about us are so depressing...

Aphobia, sex 

Something we don't talk about enough: the desexualisation of aspec people.

The mere fact that this sentence sounds like an absurdity to so many is proof of how pervasive it is.

Many aspec people fuck. Many aspec people have active, healthy sex lives.

Our sex is completely different to allosexual sex, but it is still sex.

The assumption that aspec people never have sex- and that if we do it's trauma/internalised oppression- is deeply insulting and harmful.

i think we should abolish the concept of being heterosexual/homosexual/whatever and just go by what you're attracted to without any sort of relation to what your own gender is

Fun fact, millionaires CAN'T live with themselves, that's why they own, like, WAY too many houses!

@evie it was you! you were the gay all along, you just had to believe in yourself.

@evie @noelle i cant wait to find out that I’m being played by scarlet Johansson

I'm a smol cishet white man uwu bean so if I ever make you uncomfortable, u should tell me uwu. But only in DMs so I'm not embarrassed in public. But don't be too mean or I mite get scared OwO. Also theres a chance ill straight up ignore you. Pleas be patient!

Venz pol, positive (?!) 

Fullstop talking to a non-Chavista leftist Venezuelan about our country's politics is the most refreshing shit ever even if I'm ignorant of a lot of things

And a far cry from reading gringos comment on it for sure lmao

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