@Kabit @trans_pupper wow this hits a nail on a head somewhere in the distance!
"ah I should care but I don't" is way different from "actually I don't need to care at all"and wow this is... the nonbinary feeling
@trans_pupper thanks pupper. iβve been out here collecting gender scraps for a while and i think itβs going quite well π
re: parents, trans coming out (~/β )
for the first time since I moved out, I actually want to have a relationship with them. they're genuinely interesting, if maladapted, and something about that informs who I am. and I want to know what I missed.
parents, trans coming out (~/β )
I'm trying to just get to a point with my parents where I can say anything and like
my dad keeps talking over everyone and it's real hard to get a thought in without him talking about himself. hahahaha
I give myself permission to not do this today. to not do it tomorrow. I give myself permission to wait until i feel like I'm comfortable and they will listen. I give myself permission to not do it at all.
but
(-) medical
@pandora_parrot @poss_bot I. LOVE. YOUR. HAIR. SO. MUUUUUUUUCH
(-) medical
@pandora_parrot @poss_bot oh my gosh that's a lot for you to contend with! I'm glad you're here and have better self-acceptance, you're super lovely and deserve all the happiness. π
(my partner and I both have hecka medical struggles and this was really encouraging, also I super want (need) to make wearing a wig a normal part of my life. it feels so good to, but I get so shy about it in public )
@pandora_parrot @chuxen@queer.party she's amaaaaazing!
@sol @chuxen@queer.party omigosh I'm utterly melting
@sol @chuxen@queer.party BEST SHAPE BEST SHAPE BEST SHAPE
@Oneironott thank you hunny omigoshhshahhahahahhhhhaaaaaaaaa!
@sol @chuxen@queer.party eeeeeeee!
@jankar89 @chuxen@queer.party i'm beauuuuutiful~
@eevee opFMG !
hi my name is tanuki (they/them), i'm a tanuki. ace, diamoric, still unabashedly adoring fat people. enby af. that means nonbinary. it's a term i prefer.
building a gender out of scrap parts.
maybe you knew me before. if you have questions, just ask~