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when you just say someone's name or are somehow affiliated with someone, and another person brings up something they did wrong some while back, ask yourself why? what is the useful purpose of bringing this up besides to say "this person is Bad" and is it the entire story? sometimes this is a useful interaction and sometimes it is not. use your best judgement. if someone routinely is a broker of pointless nasty gossip, we call them Ba'alei Lashon Hara, lords of the evil tongue.

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Mastodon's userbase may lean older than tumblr or so but many people on here are still young and don't advertise it; and also no matter how old you are you can still be in a process of learning.

After someone has already been confronted, been held accountable, made up for their hata (sin, literally "going astray"), and we've all moved on without another incident, we should acknowledge that this person has learned from their mistake and bring it up again only if they transgress again

otherwise why do it

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Hey friends it's your favorite Righteous Preacher of the Holy Word here to remind you Yet Again about Lashon Hara.

Lashon Hara is a despicable sin condemned by HaShem the god of the Jews. It is when you spread bad things about people which may be true but which have no useful or productive purpose to be brought up. The classic example is bringing up a mistake someone made a while back which they have since already apologized and atoned for, and have not made again. It hurts community and hinders learning

"hey, now. why the long face?"
"because longer passwords are more secure"

hp livetooting 

(yes, I'm continuing this from last night)

why is Hermione Granger the first one under the sorting hat? Why isn't it alphabetical?

sad 

i hate how I can be feeling great, and then I'm reminded that I'm still stuck and still attached to these people who'd destroy me if they realised I was trans.

that despite wanting to present more effeminately for 8 fucking years I'm still trapped in a situation where doing so is going to cause huge huge problems.

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sad 

My mum met with people from the horrible place I was working at for 4 years, and told me that they said they missed me.

it's so hard for me to reconcile the pain and suffering they caused me with the surface level positive relationships I had with everyone there

I think the presence of "reading mode" on modern browsers - that take a website and make it readable - is a big sign that something is wrong with the modern web.

I use it a lot on mobile firefox because I routinely encounter sites that are legitimately illegible on my phone without it.

thousands in Turkey were arrested for downloading an encrypted messaging app 

''Tens of thousands of Turkish citizens detained or dismissed from their jobs on the basis of downloading an encrypted messaging app have had their human rights breached...'

'The government says those detained or dismissed have links to a movement led by the preacher Gülen,...'

'study, commissioned by opponents... arrest of 75,000 suspects primarily because they downloaded the ByLock
#turkey
frama.link/RmcNZZ5G

"(...) human beings are, in the words of an article in the journal Frontiers in Psychology, “spectacularly unusual when compared to other animals”. This refers to our astonishing degree of #altruism (...) We have been induced by politicians, economists and journalists to accept a vicious ideology of extreme competition and individualism that (...)encourages us to fear and mistrust each other"

We are altruists by nature, don't let the capitalist elite tell you otherwise.

theguardian.com/books/2017/sep

LB: I still use print statements in java/c/etc, because for a lot of my common errors it's faster.

didn't finish the movie, but now I have to go to bed

have a good day, everyone who's waking up~

hp livetooting 

"makers of fine wands since 382 BC"

that's WAY TOO LONG

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Why is gringotts bank so wibbly wobbly?

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"all students may bring either an owl, a cat, or a toad"

a toad? how are they supposed to get mail delivered by toad?

it's taken me 50 minutes to watch the first 18 minutes of the movie because I keep getting distracted by birdsite/mastodon

hp livetooting 

HP has got a lot of background music... it's just soundtrack all the time in every scene...

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