get working avery [ 3 ] (-)
the problem is that I've tried everything
not being able to focus or pay attention is a problem I've had for years and years and everything that everyone suggests I've already tried and nothing works
get working avery [ 2 ]
I want to use specific times for working (like "I'll work from 9am to 11am"), but I know this breaks down if I lose focus partway through, and then I just start beating myself up over how terrible I am and then I give up
get working avery [ 1 ]
I've already got a space to use ONLY for work, and it's got that association
so I just need to figure out how to get myself into that space...
I need help with this, i guess
but I don't know how to fix it or how anyone would be able to help
work
this is why I want a job.... put me in a place where I have to work and I will, but if I've got an unlimited timespan to do work in I won't do it
and it's got nothing to do with deadlines (they make it harder to work). it's entirely
"you're at the office from 9-5, so you're working from 9-5"
You are allowed to do stuff just because you want to.
Even if it uses up all your spoons/matches.
Even if it leaves your exhausted and broken the next day.
Even if you need to let other stuff slide a bit while you recover.
You are allowed to have fun, to go out, to take a day once in a while and do what you want with it.
Being #disabled, or #chronicallyill, or a #parent, etc doesn't mean you can't take time for you.
(I needed to hear this today, so I figured other folks might too.)
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Song of the day is Miasma by A Moth in Amber
Poverty
I often tell friends who are struggling to put food on their plate they should apply for SNAP or go to the food bank
They often reply that they don't want to take it from the people who really need it
Friends, if your bank account is zilch and you're begging online for donations to buy food, you're the people who really need it. It's for you. I only ever got myself out of poverty by taking advantage of every social service available.
Try the food bank.
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