get working avery [ 3 ] (-)
the problem is that I've tried everything
not being able to focus or pay attention is a problem I've had for years and years and everything that everyone suggests I've already tried and nothing works
get working avery [ 2 ]
I want to use specific times for working (like "I'll work from 9am to 11am"), but I know this breaks down if I lose focus partway through, and then I just start beating myself up over how terrible I am and then I give up
get working avery [ 1 ]
I've already got a space to use ONLY for work, and it's got that association
so I just need to figure out how to get myself into that space...
I need help with this, i guess
but I don't know how to fix it or how anyone would be able to help
work
this is why I want a job.... put me in a place where I have to work and I will, but if I've got an unlimited timespan to do work in I won't do it
and it's got nothing to do with deadlines (they make it harder to work). it's entirely
"you're at the office from 9-5, so you're working from 9-5"
You are allowed to do stuff just because you want to.
Even if it uses up all your spoons/matches.
Even if it leaves your exhausted and broken the next day.
Even if you need to let other stuff slide a bit while you recover.
You are allowed to have fun, to go out, to take a day once in a while and do what you want with it.
Being #disabled, or #chronicallyill, or a #parent, etc doesn't mean you can't take time for you.
(I needed to hear this today, so I figured other folks might too.)
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